His wife places bowls of cereal in front of the toddlers. Patrick gives his children a kiss on their foreheads. He walks up to his wife, and replies, "it is not a pay rise. I am going to learn to be a diver, I can work overseas and earn three times as much as I do now, when I qualify. "Helen's face drops at the news, she gazes at the children and replies, "is that what you really want? Look at your children, you be away for months. I can manage on my own, your children will miss you, can you do this and be without them for so long?" She turns to face her husband; he gazes into her worried eyes. He replies" I will, I can earn enough to buy our own house, I can give you all you ever wanted and need. "His wife hugs him gently and replies, "I will support you, if this is what you want."