This story is the real life story of the pure soul girl.Her name is Shankari that’s me .My own life story.How I was grown up and what was happened in my life and how I overcome those horrible situations.How I am now.The reason I am writing my story can motivate many women’s to be strong enough to face their marriage life.
I was born in a middle class family.I am the eldest one and I have a younger sister and a younger brother.My father is an accountant and my mother is a homemaker.My mother also do some work from home like spinning threads to support my father.My parents we’re struggling to provide the food and clothes for us.Since childhood I have seen my parents struggled.I always help my mother house chores.We studied in a. Government schools.With lots of struggles my parents brought us well.I did Nursing course.with support of my father.I am very beautiful and pleasant girl.During my college time they were few doctors proposed me but i was too young to understand them.I too get attracted by one of my classmate.but later I came to know that he was in love with his college mate.That feeling was just infacturation .I completed my college and I wish to work in a chennai city but my parents wanted me to work in our small town.I got a job offer from one of the prestigious hospital in Chennai and I stayed in a hostel and worked with my parents permission.
I am 22 years old and I wish to go to UK and work.This is the time I went to the browsing center and searched for a job information.so I created a yahoo account with the help of my colleague Anisha .She taught me how to chat in a chat room.One day I went to the uk chat room to get a information about my nursing job in uk.I saw the Indian name and I started to chat with him.This is my fate .How my life changed after this chatting.well everyday after my work I go the internet center to chat with him.He gave his uk number and I called him.we fell in love very shortly and we do exchange emails.But I completely forgot that my email password my sister knows.so she red my emails and informed to my patients.My father was very angry with me .I informed this matter to my lover.He said he’s coming to india to see me.He was working as a bartender in P&O cruise.As he said he visited me and we met and we liked each other.We went out for a movie and lunch.Unfortunately I met my junior girl on our way and she mentioned about my colleague whom I was attracted in the college to my lover just for a fun.He didn’t mind that time.(But this is in his mind until now).
My parents were strongly against this matter.we decided to get married without my parents knowledge.I left the hostel and we took a house for a rent and we got married in a temple.The next day I called my father and informed that I got married.They we’re very upset but they came to see us .By talking to him and they liked and they accepted our marriage.Few months passed.I came to know that he left his job in uk.but I didn’t mind that.I was working so I can support until he get a job.He was trying to get a job in Chennai and he got in The park hotel as a supervisor.But he is a drinker and he always says that he’s a social drinker.He came home late and never help me in anything at house work.I work,I cook,I do all the house. Work.Very often he drinks and come home late nights.we always had a fight.My parents aware about it.Because of society and my siblings future.they just ignored.I too understand because I chose him and I have to live with him no other option.One year passed like this.He got a job in Middle East as a restaurant manager.This time I got a job in Bangalore and I was staying in the hostel.After 7 months time I went to Middle East with a family visa.
I was searching for a job and same time we we’re having fight always .many times I felt that I don’t want to live anymore.But the time went like this.I got a job in Government hospital.After 5 years of marriage we were planning for a baby and I got pregnant.
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