Be your own self take a toll on everybody else meaning the things you want to do in life someone always tell you is not good for you to do do you follow that assumptions or do we take time out to follow our own assumptions discussing things to everyone doesn't mean you have to tell everything that you have going on or discuss what's not right for you speak over yourself humble yourself and be proud of self your life is your life everyone else can stop it if you allow them but don't stop what they have going on with them self focus on their situations and make it a love story in your case if you love writing if you love doing different activities take toll on put it into a story life changes as you changes it what's around you is good for you what's around you is not good for you pick and choose and place yourself before them God will always be there to guide you wherever you have to go whenever your thoughts and wherever your mind should take you men and women here on Earth the wise is the older ones that you should listen to the young ones has become wise itself is the ones that can give you courage knowing they come from the good line of generation but the thing the most about this it should be self listen to God in order to see what do he have a storage for you make your time wise and make your past your strength to be continued