I ment my husband on a dating site called plenty of fish .Now listen I was on there for about a total of 6months and oh I have ment my fair share of men even had some sexual encounters with them as well. Before I ment my husband I was like a man. I would sleep with men and act as if I did not even know them .a wise man once told me years before I started dating to leave my feelings on the sheets because the sheet don’t speak and boy was he right .Lets just get into Brent I had just moved in my house it was 2016 and I had ment Brent from the look of his pictures on plenty of fish and the conversations we had Brent decided he wanted to see my in person .I was so nervous but my cousin Keisha was there so I knew I was going to get her to answer the door .Now Keisha was about 5 feet 7 and weight 280 pounds and very cute to be a thick girl .Keisha would always have a small pony tail the the rubber band was barley holding but at the time she was staying with me .So when Brent came and knocked on the door Keisha was there to answer it .Now me I was 5 feet 2 inches 165 thick in all the right places. I had I hour glass shape about two hours after our conversation I heard a knock on the door .I was in my living room and I asked Keisha to answer the door .When Keisha answered I heard a male say hello is Hershey in ? Keisha was always the joking so she act like she was me .I then walked over to the door and I saw a bright smile and one of the most handsome men I ever saw right before my eyes . Brent in person he looked even better so let me describe Brent he was very handsome about 5”11 nice built if you ask me he look like he stay at the gym . He was in the military for 10 years and he was so nice and sweet and with his eyes he could undress me anytime ,his lips were so kissable .That night we laughed and joked and he noticed I did not have much furniture in my home and I explained to him that I had lost everything. I moved in a home that had bed bugs .I was told to trash everything before I could move into a new house. I lost all my deceased mom belongings that ment so much . back then I was on section 8 so I did not have rental insurance . I had paid all my money to move into the infested home that I barley had it to pay to move into another home. I had no dishes what I can say is Brent did right he gave me a lap top and some shirts and some more stuff. I can’t really remember but he felt so bad hearing what happened . Months go on and me and Brent was definitely sexually involved but I never knew where we stood . I really like him but one day me and Brent go out to eat and to have drinks and my back was against the table . behind me I noticed Brent smiling a little to much so I turned around and there it was a table of females and one of them was flirting . Never once did Brent respect me enough to not pay the young lady some mind instead his bitch ass smiled as if it was ok .So that’s when my game mode kicked in no more fucking him and caring . I sat there and ordered another drink and continued to talk and smile after all his was not my man . I might as well drink while iam here then it was time to leave .I had on a pencil skirt that fit my body so good you could see every curve and a fitted solid tank that matched my 8” heels with the toes out when. I went to get up to walk out I could see other men looking at me shit one man was coming in just in time he held the door for me I smiled and said thank you he smiled back and let the door go so Brent could open it his self . The games was on from there adlease that’s what I thought .I continued to chat on plenty of fish so I started talking to another man . I guess Brent put his homeboy on to see if I would talk to him even though I did not know it was his home boy I communicated with dude and a day later Brent called me and asked me could he come over to chill with me . I told him yes excited because I really like only him . Then he sent me a text and said make sure you tell your best friend to come over too I always liked her. For a minute I sat there my feelings was a lot hurt but I caught my breath . Then replied well maybe you should knock on my friend door nice knowing you and just like that I blocked him . Then to get him off my mind I decided to go out with my friends. I told my self iam deleting the app completely . the next day I went to go delete the app and I see all these messages from a guy name Shawn . Now his messages was so sweet I wrote his number down and sent him a text .(hey this is Hershey iam no longer on the dating site I decided to hit you up I did not want to be rude and ignore you ) Shawn replied instantly from that day me and Shawn talked everyday even fell asleep on the phone most nights .Shawn was just getting into church real heavy and he wanted us to first meet there he was getting baptized .I agreed but that day my allergies was messing with me I took a Benadryl and over slept .Then two days later we agreed that Shawn would come to my house me and Shawn talk about so much . I remember asking Shawn what kind of car did he have and he told me a beat up car that made a lot of noise and that I would hate his car when it arrived . Now I told Shawn it did not matter . I was just so happy to meet him in person so Shawn shows up and call me and say he out side . My best friend lived two doors down so she was looking out her window because we was on the phone and she was like bitch his car is not beat up it’s a Mercedes Benz . Okay I was not into cars so I really did not care . I go out to the car and got in and there he sat light skinned green eyes freckle gold teeth up top and he was dressed from head to toe everything matched including his fitted hat . I thought to my self he is fine but damn this nigga dress better than me .I had on a dress and some shoes and two braids me and Shawn sat for hours I told myself I was not allowing no man I don’t know and iam not going to be with in my home to get close to my children. Then it happened Shawn was like can I use your bathroom. I said no you can pee out here I don’t let men in my home that fast plus my kids are awake and I don’t want them to see you .I did not want my kids to see a man walking in like she just left Brent alone Now it’s a new dude anyway he peed out side and got back in the car every day after Shawn came to my house but still the thought was in my head damn he everything I want .But he might be to on his self always dressed to a tee . I would joke with my best friend and say girl I can’t fuck him because he might be to on his self well .I learned that Shawn had been staying with a church member and his wife and after a certain time they would lock there door so Shawn started to leave early to he could get in ,after about two months of seeing each other and spending every chance we had together the church members told him that they wanted to talk to him about a exit day .When he told me that .I decided to ask him which I did could him and his daughter move in with me .Now my ass had a voucher and me and Shawn was in a relationship and we was talking about marriage . I knows he was married before his daughter was at the ex wife home with her sibblings . About two weeks of Shawn staying with me he went to pick up his daughter Mara from the time she stepped into my home she had a mission. He told me he had got custody because her mom was beating her . Only to find out Mara was a fuck up Lor girl she was sooooo sexually active and a big liar she was only 14 years old .Oh she look like his twin just a girl light skin long natural hair red and hazel eyes for some reason she did not like me no matter how nice I was to her . Two weeks later me and Shawn got married but the night before Mara told me that I would be Shawn third wife . I wondered why he lied and I asked him about his lies too of course he came up with a story . . Saying he was young 18 when he married his first wife and he decided she was a cheater he could not stay . That was his story so we went off to get married.Aug 3,2018.