The only thing I wanna say is always love your partner unconditionally. Your partner chooses you for what you actually are either it could be a boy or a girl. If you actually love someone deeply you should not leave them at any cost and at any situation. If you are with them on their lowest then they will keep you with them when it's their good times. No one stays with you permanently except your partner. You love your partner then you should have the courage to go against your parents when you both want to marry. Nothing is more important than your partner as your own friends whom you trusted a lot will leave you at your lowest but not your partner. They will give you strength to handle and tackle the situation. Don't be with your partner only for your lust or for money because God will not excuse you to punish if your partner truly loves you and you are here only for money. Do not hurt someone's feelings for your needs.
HAVE THE COURAGE TO GO AGAINST YOUR FAMILY AND MARRY OR DON'T MAKE SOMEONE HALF DEAD TO PROTECT YOUR FATHER'S REPUTATION.