I want to give you one more example of actions over empty words, because this one still sits in my chest like a warm stone, and I need you to understand how rare it is, how precious, how worth holding onto.About a month after my husband died, I got sick. Now, I don't get sick often—maybe once every two or three years. But when I do, it's not a day and a sniffle. It's a week or more, and often part ...