"It's all about Love"
"Akansha" is confused...
She is very beautiful & wants to believe in "Law of Attraction."
The most important thing in her life is "Love."
She is a science graduate. She belongs to India. She is 21 years old. 5"7 tall, fair complexion. As thin as any model.
If I describe her in one sentence, "She looks like a daughter of "Nature" who born in a human Origin. "Especially when she wears green.
"Love" has a slightly different definition for her unlike her personality.
She is modern, educated, confident & well cultured but still has a fear to get cheated.
She has a fear of wrong selection.
It's all about Love that matters most in her Life.
She was thinking "When I am fearing for wrong selection at the age of 21 being more matured, what about those teen agers who just turned 14 & experiencing hormonal changes in them."
She was more worried about them.
"Akansha" has been observing since her school life.
When she was at the age of 14, she observed that the maximum Girls & minimum Boys of same age group are living in a fantasy for someone they like & assume it love forever. First & last.
A fantasy world all of a sudden disappears when someone's one sided perception, so called love breaks their heart.
"As a girl, I realized that now it's time for the Parents to respect their children's emotions & educate them."
When Parents say that Love, Attraction are bull shit, it produces nothing but spoil someone's life & it maybe you.
"I would like to ask each one, did they follow the same instructions of their parents when they were in my age."
I guess, a ratio is very minimum.
Both Mom & Dad also have faced such situation in their young age.
Either they were victim or cheater. Could they make right decision that time.
Did they honestly share such experiences with each other?
I haven't heard in my entire life, now I am turning to 22 that any parents have told their children how to handle the relationship.
They must tell their young children to differentiate "Friendship", "Attraction" & "Love."
If they can learn this skill, they can live all relationships without any damage to their life.
This Problem is continuing generation to generation.
Because...
Majority of Parents are not focused towards hormonal changes in their Children specially Girls.
"I am a human, full of knowledgeable If I was not very smart at my teen age who could have helped me...my Mom, Dad or any other."
Shall I consider myself lucky that I could not be cheated being deep observer.
Being a science student, I could understand what is happening with me and why?
But these feelings are so much strong that can carry away anyone & if it's about a teen ager they can be a soft target even being knowledgeable about such situation.
In such situation you need a guidance & support from your parents because they had been at that age & know how to tackle such situation.
I was thinking that what would happen if they also were victims & cheated by someone.
They failed in differentiating "Friendship", "Attraction" and "love."
How would they help me in that condition.
Another thought that was in my mind was...how to open up with my parents.
It was both physical & mental change that was affecting my body & mood.
All of a sudden, I was sky high.
Thinking as if I am the boss in my family.
I am bigger than anyone.
I am young & matured.
It was the effect of hormonal changes in me.
I thought why not to test myself.
"Self-assessment."
When I know at this age, I will be attracted towards boys & will go closer to them who will be impressive.
Impressive by look, impressive by talk, impressive because of their caring nature towards other & may be me.
I also start understanding that there can be a mask.
There can be a fake personality to impress.
I have heard & seen many teen agers leaving their homes in an illusion that it's their true love & they will live together for a lifelong.
But they return once that bubble blasts. They realize that the Real life is very different from virtual life.
This kind of event is unlawful being minors, unacceptable by the family & society. Moreover, it's unpractical & far from the challenges that are faced in day-to-day life.
To be continued?
"Akansha" is confused...
She is very beautiful & wants to believe in "Law of Attraction."
The most important thing in her life is "Love."
She is a science graduate. She belongs to India. She is 21 years old. 5"7 tall, fair complexion. As thin as any model.
If I describe her in one sentence, "She looks like a daughter of "Nature" who born in a human Origin. "Especially when she wears green.
"Love" has a slightly different definition for her unlike her personality.
She is modern, educated, confident & well cultured but still has a fear to get cheated.
She has a fear of wrong selection.
It's all about Love that matters most in her Life.
She was thinking "When I am fearing for wrong selection at the age of 21 being more matured, what about those teen agers who just turned 14 & experiencing hormonal changes in them."
She was more worried about them.
"Akansha" has been observing since her school life.
When she was at the age of 14, she observed that the maximum Girls & minimum Boys of same age group are living in a fantasy for someone they like & assume it love forever. First & last.
A fantasy world all of a sudden disappears when someone's one sided perception, so called love breaks their heart.
"As a girl, I realized that now it's time for the Parents to respect their children's emotions & educate them."
When Parents say that Love, Attraction are bull shit, it produces nothing but spoil someone's life & it maybe you.
"I would like to ask each one, did they follow the same instructions of their parents when they were in my age."
I guess, a ratio is very minimum.
Both Mom & Dad also have faced such situation in their young age.
Either they were victim or cheater. Could they make right decision that time.
Did they honestly share such experiences with each other?
I haven't heard in my entire life, now I am turning to 22 that any parents have told their children how to handle the relationship.
They must tell their young children to differentiate "Friendship", "Attraction" & "Love."
If they can learn this skill, they can live all relationships without any damage to their life.
This Problem is continuing generation to generation.
Because...
Majority of Parents are not focused towards hormonal changes in their Children specially Girls.
"I am a human, full of knowledgeable If I was not very smart at my teen age who could have helped me...my Mom, Dad or any other."
Shall I consider myself lucky that I could not be cheated being deep observer.
Being a science student, I could understand what is happening with me and why?
But these feelings are so much strong that can carry away anyone & if it's about a teen ager they can be a soft target even being knowledgeable about such situation.
In such situation you need a guidance & support from your parents because they had been at that age & know how to tackle such situation.
I was thinking that what would happen if they also were victims & cheated by someone.
They failed in differentiating "Friendship", "Attraction" and "love."
How would they help me in that condition.
Another thought that was in my mind was...how to open up with my parents.
It was both physical & mental change that was affecting my body & mood.
All of a sudden, I was sky high.
Thinking as if I am the boss in my family.
I am bigger than anyone.
I am young & matured.
It was the effect of hormonal changes in me.
I thought why not to test myself.
"Self-assessment."
When I know at this age, I will be attracted towards boys & will go closer to them who will be impressive.
Impressive by look, impressive by talk, impressive because of their caring nature towards other & may be me.
I also start understanding that there can be a mask.
There can be a fake personality to impress.
I have heard & seen many teen agers leaving their homes in an illusion that it's their true love & they will live together for a lifelong.
But they return once that bubble blasts. They realize that the Real life is very different from virtual life.
This kind of event is unlawful being minors, unacceptable by the family & society. Moreover, it's unpractical & far from the challenges that are faced in day-to-day life.
To be continued?
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